HAPPY NEW YEAR FROM CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGY ASSOCIATES!
Quote of the Month:
Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where
there is no path and leave a trail.
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
In this newsletter:
1) Fast Help: Insomnia
2) Therapist Q&A: Finding a Child Therapist
3) Psychology News In Brief
4) Programs To Help You
5) Reading Recommendations
1) Fast Help: Insomnia
Insomnia affects millions of people each year. Insomnia is simply
defined as having difficulty sleeping, whether it is non-refreshing
sleep, difficulty falling asleep, or difficulty staying asleep
(waking in the middle of the night). There are many causes of
insomnia. It can be the result of many disorders, of behavioral,
psychological, or of a medical nature. Some psychological disorders
are responsible for insomnia, including depression, anxiety, substance
abuse (including caffeine), job stress, and relationship dissatisfaction.
In addition, a host of medical problems, from heart and lung disease
to thyroid disorders and physical pain can cause insomnia. The
list goes on. Getting the right amount of sleep is an important
part of your health and it should be given priority. We live in
a fast-paced world and it is easy to convince ourselves that we
can skip a few hours here and a few hours there and still function
with a few extra cups of coffee. This only contributes to the
continuing cycle.
There are several treatments available for insomnia. Treatment
can be provided by different types of providers. Your doctor can
prescribe medication to assist with sleep. Talking with your doctor
is very important; they can rule out other physical illnesses
or factors contributing to insomnia. Psychotherapy can also assist
to evaluate your stress level and/or other psychological factors
that are getting in the way of healthy sleep. Cognitive-behavioral
psychotherapy is very effective with the treatment of insomnia.
This process assists with changing unhealthy or irrational thought
patterns (about sleep) and replace them with healthy thoughts
and belief systems, resulting in healthy sleep. Alternative therapies
such as herbal supplements as well as acupuncture are also widely
used for treatment of sleep problems. Consult an alternative healthcare
provider if you are interested in the exploration of alternative
therapies.
Whatever the cause of sleep problems you may be experiencing,
know that proper sleep is important to your good health. Each
persons body is different and so each person needs a different
amount of sleep. Talk to your doctor or healthcare provider today
if you are experiencing insomnia. When you feel happier, more
productive and refreshed, you will be glad you did!
2) Therapist Q&A
I would like my child to see a counselor. How do I convince him
to do this?
First, talk with your child about your concerns. Choosing a comfortable
place for the child is important. Speak with your child in a gentle
manner, which will allow your child to express his/her concerns
in as much depth as he/she is comfortable. Let your child know
that a counselor is a confidential resource where your child can
talk about whatever is on their mind, in a safe place. Point out
the benefits of therapy, such as improved mood and functioning
and reduction of uncomfortable symptoms such as sadness or nervousness,
for example. Since his/her safety is an utmost concern, contact
your family physician or local emergency room if your child is
an imminent threat of safety to him/herself or others.
Secondly, choosing the right therapist is a very important process,
but it can be a daunting one, as there are many therapists to
choose from. But dont be discouraged or intimidated. Here
are a few ways to get in touch with a counselor who is right for
your child:
If you wish to use your health insurance, contact your
insurance company for a list of therapists who work with children.
Dont limit your search to only in-network providers. Oftentimes,
an out-of-network provider may be more suited to address the problem
or concern. This may cost a bit more, but can cost less in the
long run if your child is comfortable with a particular therapist
vs. not being able to connect with one that is an in-network insurance
provider.
The internet has many therapist locator websites, where you can
search by your town or zip code. You and your child can browse
different therapist profiles, and after reading about the therapists
and seeing a photo, your child may get a sense of whether or not
he or she will be comfortable with this person.
Ask around. Friends and family members may have had a good experience
with a particular therapist and might recommend him or her
Know also that most therapists welcome a brief phone call so
that a client can screen the therapist/assess for comfort level.
They want to make sure you find the right person suited for your
childs needs. Dont be afraid to ask the therapist
about their training and experience working with your childs
area of concern. If you choose to work with a particular therapist,
work out an initial plan as to how long problem resolution may
take. However, be patient, especially in the beginning. Uncomfortable
symptoms or feelings often increase in the beginning of treatment
as difficult emotions are discussed with the therapist and brought
out into the open. Usually after a few sessions, these uncomfortable
feelings will be felt less and less. It is important to know that
the symptom or feeling is a result of a deeper problem. As the
therapist assists with addressing the underlying problem, the
uncomfortable feelings subside even more.
Feel free to contact one of our professionally trained staff
if you have further concerns regarding your child. Our staff is
prepared to work with concerns of all ages and a variety of concerns,
and is happy to assist with a brief initial consult by phone to
ensure that your child receives the services needed.
3) Psychology News In Brief
Women may be more affected by their parents divorce than
men, according to a recent study published in the Journal of Family
Psychology (Vol. 22, No. 5). The study reports that, compared
to men and to children of non-divorced parents, engaged women
of divorced parents report less confidence and commitment to their
marriages. The study states that this might be the case because
women are typically more relationship-oriented than men.
(From Monitor on Psychology, December 2008).
4) Programs To Help You
In addition to the traditional counseling services we provide,
at Clinical Psychology Associates we also offer the following:
Depression Screening
Anxiety Screening
Marriage/Relationship Enrichment Program
Smoking Cessation
Career Counseling and Testing
For information regarding any of these programs or to schedule
a confidential consultation, please contact our programs coordinator,
Chris Lerner at lernerc@hotmail.com
or 262-251-1112, ext 8. For a full listing of the services we
offer, please go to http://www.clinical-psychology-associates.com/services.htm
.
5) Reading Recommendations
Staff therapist Tara Magaw, MA, LPC recommends:
Fighting for Your Marriage by Howard J Markman, Scott M. Stanley,
and Susan L. Blumberg. This book is based on groundbreaking
studies that reveal strategies to help handle conflict more constructively,
protect happiness and reduce the odds of breaking up.
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. Dr. Gary Chapman
reveals how different people express love in different ways. These
love languages include: Quality time, words of affirmation, gifts,
acts of service and physical touch.
Honeymoon Marriage by Darren and Donna McNees. Success in
any area of life can be obtained by following a detailed road
map written by someone who knows how to get there. "Honeymoon
Marriage" is such a road map. It will guide you down the
path to self-improvement, optimal health, financial prosperity,
self-discovery, spiritual enlightenment, self-confidence, romance
and intimacy.
Newsletter reader recommends:
Pulling Your Own Strings by Dr Wayne Dyer: How to recognize
and combat the attempts at manipulation from others.
The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron: Approaching life as
an artist in an artistic, expressive, creative way.
Trauma and Addiction by Tian Dayton, Ph.D.: Discusses the link
between trauma and addiction.
We welcome the titles and authors of any appropriate books you
have found to be particularly useful. We may then share them in
this newsletter and on our website (your name will be withheld
for confidentiality purposes). If you have a book or similar resource
you would like to share, please email the title, author, and a
brief description to cpa@wi.rr.com.
Clinical
Psychology Associates
State Certified Clinic
262.251.1112